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ORANGE — Grace Léger, 66, of 40 Chestnut Hill Road in Orange, died on
December 20, 2023, surrounded by her immediate family.
Grace was born in Boston, MA, on June 22,1957 to Paul Younger and Phillis (Jenner) Younger.
She was named Jayle Grace Younger at birth, but most knew her as “J”. In 2006,
she legally changed her name to Grace - a name reflected in her soul and her
approach to people. Grace was one of 9 children, a classic “his, hers and theirs”
family group. After a chaotic childhood, Grace escaped the madness in the early
70’s, when her sister Diane and family helped her to stabilize her life. In 1976, she
graduated from Pentucket High School and enrolled at Salem State University.
In 1978, while working at the Parker River National Wildlife Refuge in Newburyport,
MA, she met her future husband Anthony Léger, who was an employee at the
Refuge. Almost immediately, Grace and Tony were inseparable, each realizing that
they had met “the one”. They were married on December 1,1978. Grace and Tony
moved around the Eastern US as Tony advanced in his career and Grace attended
college in pursuit of her goals. Their daughter, Emily Anne, was born on May 13,
1980, in Geneva, NY. Their son, Alexander, was born in Newburyport, MA on
October 2, 1984.
Her early life experience greatly influenced Grace’s decision to commit to a career of
helping people. In 1993, Grace graduated from Old Dominion University in Norfolk,
VA, receiving a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology. In 1997, Grace received her
Master’s of Social Work from Smith College in Northampton, MA. Grace worked
throughout the Pioneer Valley as a licensed clinical social worker. She was a
clinician and supervisor and a school adjustment counselor within the Orange Public
Schools. She dedicated her career of over 25 years to helping families and children
solve problems. Her passion was to make life better for the numerous people whom
she heard and supported on their journey. Grace touched the lives of every person
she met.
Grace was a devoted mother and wife, a gardener, and a lover of all music. She
was the co-owner of Foothill Farm and Grace Gardens in Orange, MA, which she
established with her husband. Her beautiful perennials have been shared with many
homes throughout the North Quabbin area bringing joy. Grace loved finding JOY and
sharing it with others.
Grace loved her family, her gardens, yoga, hiking, and waterfalls. She visited many
waterfalls in New England and elsewhere over the past 5 years. The only thing that
brought her more joy was her Grandchildren; Clara Grace and Maxwell James
Kelsey. To the grandkids, she was GG (Grandma Grace). She spent every moment
she could with them.
Grace called “Bullshit” when she saw it and was always advocating for fact-based
discussions. She supported causes for women’s rights, equality, justice, and civility
in her actions and deeds. Particularly enraged by the rise of fascism in America
through right-wing politics, Grace supported many organizations that challenged the
slide of American society into the dysfunction we see today. Grace marched. She
marched for equality and women’s rights both locally and nationally. In January of
2017, just 4 weeks after having a hip replaced, she rode a bus all night to participate
in the Women’s March, in support of democracy and equality in America. Grace
marched over 6 miles in Washington DC. that day.
Grace is survived and deeply missed by her husband Tony; daughter Emily Kelsey
and husband Shawn of Greenfield; son Alexander Léger-Small, and husband
Matthew of Holyoke; and her grandchildren, Clara and Maxwell Kelsey. She is also
survived by her sisters: Diane Dean of Dudley, NC and Jodi McNamara of
Manchester, NH; and brother Daniel Bennett of Danvers, MA, as well as many
beloved friends and extended family.
In lieu of flowers, friends may make a donation in Grace’s memory to any cause
which supports equal protection for all people. Grace was especially supportive of
women’s rights and voting rights. She admired the work of the ACLU, the Movement Voter Project and Planned Parenthood.
Witty’s Funeral Home, 158 South Main Street, Orange, assisted the family.
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